:)

i practically din slp last nite..

my tummy hurt so much, i toss and turn, but stil couldnt get to bed.. :( i finally "surrender" at 4am. made breakfast for hubby :) gonna see him in an hour's time! *smile*

maybe i miss him so much tat i couldnt get to slp? hehe.. other than my painful tummy =p

hav a gr8 wkend peeps! :):):)

Some thoughts

I was reading FP forum.. and came across this post..

gal and guy have been tgt for 4 yrs. guy demands gal to wear "more branded" clothes as image to him is impt. t-shirt n jeans is a no-no for him.. de gal has to wear spag at least. they had small quarrel, which eventually leaded to their first break up. guy broke into gal's house to take back everythg he bought for her. 1 month later, de guy came kneeling down at her hse to ask for forgiveness. guy confessed to gal tat he had sex wif some gal ("X") tat he knew fr a pub. gal forgave guy after de guy promised tat he will change his temper & abusive behaviour.

afterwhich, de guy confessed another time to gal tat he had sex wif his ex colleague.

WHY? --> "cos he wanted to make sure who he loves, who he wans to be wif".

quoted from the gal -->

" sex to him is like an escape, knowing tat it will hurt me the most. i couldnt tink straight but i forgave him not knowing wad to do & how to react, and he proposed. He told me not to be so naive and tat all guys hav sex outside the r/s and tat he is being faithful by telling me de truth while most guys will not tell their gfs".

guy tells gal tat she has to accept his proposal as his relatives are aware of this "proposal" already, if not gal will be makin him lose face. guy threatened gal to take away the "pet" they had wif ever since dey got togeda.

quoted from the gal -->

"i am reali attached to de pet and hav been taking care of him. He said tat de pet signifies us and since we have broken up, he wants it back. Wen i refused to return to him, he barged into my hse, grabbed de animal and tie him in a plastic bag and put it in his bike's box. He said tat if i want my pet back, i hav to patch up wif him. I agreed knowing tat my pet will die suffocating in the plastic bag. Reporting to de police is uesless bcos he is not afraid".

"i still feel insecure & uncertain bout everythg esp my own future, but i hav tis sad tout in my mind. He told me tat no other man will wan a gal like me cos i hav given my virginity to him & in de end i wld realise he is de only one who wants me. It makes me feel dirty & disgusted wif myself & i suddenly hav 2nd thoughts bout myself".

Its scary hearing such stories.. pple change.. and whether its the truth/ lie.. its reali hard to tell sometimes..

The guy seems emotionally & mentally unstable. To have "sex" as an escape or is it an excuse for forgiveness?? If marriage comes into place, will such incidents not happen again? Its tormenting to follow orders from such a guy.. and even worse, an abusive one. Violent in a r/s? Totally let-down! For someone hu can take his pet as a threatening object.. wads worse if they hav kids in future? The innocent child will be de threatening object?? *ponders* SIGH!

Happy 2nd anniversary!

its finally gonna be Friday tmr! =p

28/2 -2300-

*phone ring, wake up from my slp*

hubby: baby! happy 2yrs anniversary! i nvr forget ok!

me: huh... haven yet leh.. still got 1 more hour.. hehe

hubby: huh, i purposely call at 830 india time so tat it is 2300 in sg leh..

me: ya lor.. u already say 2300 mah.. 2300 is 11pm only leh..

hubby: oh shit... dun luff at me lah... i lose face liao :/ okok, i put down now, 12midnite den i cor u again..

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01/3 -0000-

hubby: 12midnite le! happy 2yrs wor.

me: hehe.. happy anniversary..

hubby: its been a long journey and thanks for sticking tgt with me..

me: hee..

hubby: baby, 2 dogs came sniffing on my leg.. now they are kissing each other!

me: reali? hehe.. they muz be kissing on behalf of us.. muahaha~

hubby: hehe.. they shall be our metaphor :) call u tmr baby, phone gotta get cut off aldy. gdnite baby dearest.. ************** (censored)

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how time flies~ 2yrs jus past lidat..def treasured memories :):)

lookin back at the good old times..

during our 1st month of pathor.. wen hubby was still so botak! those were de "supper period", hubby and i put on weight lor! *faint* hehe.. tat isnt a couple top wor.. we jus happen to wear sth tat reali look similar to each other :) see de "bobo chacha" at de top left corner? gosh, tat "bobo chacha" made everyone tease and luff.. *hide face* so we changed to "mocha latte"... =p

the 2nd month :) im heavy.. but hubby insisted on carrying.. *blush* heh.

sweet lovely memories :) thanks for calling, hubby. i appreciate de thought :):)

-MOCHA & LATTE-